Marriage ~ a long lasting relationship " 婚姻〜一個長期持久的關係 "

 " Marriage ~ a long lasting relationship " 

婚姻〜一個長期持久的關係

        Marriage is about two souls, lovers decided to live together and via wedding ceremony they announcing to all people surround them that both have decide to love one another, care for each other and take care of one another till death only apart.

      " 婚姻 " 就是一種兩個相愛的人決定住在一起，並通過婚禮儀式，宣布他們所有的人圍繞著他們兩人都決定要彼此相愛，互相關心和照顧彼此至死不渝只能分開。

       As for many people, marriage is a " MAJOR " decision in life.

      對於很多人來說，結婚是人生一個“重大”的決定。

      I remember more than 8 years ago, during his marriage proposal i.e. before I agreed to marry my beloved husband ;  I tested his love toward me by asking him one question .......

        我記得8年多前在他求婚之前，即我答應嫁給我心愛的丈夫。我測試了他的愛，我問了他一個問題.......

     "If one day, I grown old, no more teeth, no more beautiful and attractive as now, my hair grown grey and turning white...... etc will you still love me as much as you telling me you love me now ??? ", I wanted to be assure that I was going to marry to a man who can love me even when I'll be ugly or old.

        “如果有一天，我垂垂老矣，沒有了牙齒，沒有現在一樣的美麗和吸引力；我的頭髮長灰變白......你還會愛我就像你現在告訴我“ 我愛你” ???“，我想確保自己的決定，嫁給一個男人能够愛我白頭到老，即使我將会是又老、又醜的。

       And my beloved one, Benjamin Liu answered, " YES ! I will. "

       我心愛的人，劉世平回答說：“是的，我會的。”

Ed Ames - " My Cup Runneth Over "

On coming 18th of Jan. 2015, we are going into our 9th years wedding anniversary.

Result of a HEART TRANSPLANT

Result of a HEART TRANSPLANT

心臟移植手術的結果

        We have learned how the old heart is conceived and developed, and that it forms the basis of who we are. Now we will take a look at it from another angle. We all have a natural heart, but not many have new hearts that they have received from God. In the natural realm, when a surgeon says that a heart transplant is necessary, it is a matter of life and death.

 

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 The new heart brings new warfare 

because the enemy wants to keep you 

bound and ineffective.

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      This the same in the spiritual realm. God has already said that the heart " is exceedingly perverse and corrupt and severely, mortally sick! Who can know it [perceive, understand, be acquainted with his own heart and mind]? " (Jeremiah 17:9). We desperately need a spiritual heart transplant!

       God has already provided a Donor for all who desire to under go this vital procedure. The heart that rested inside of JESUS is available for transplant into your life. It is a heart of power. Jesus' heart came with an eternal assignment --- and when we receive His heart, we receive our part of that mission. But just as the person who receives a transplanted natural heart must engage in a fight to keep his or her body from rejecting  

 that transplanted heart, so too the enemy fights us tooth-and -nail to try to make us reject our new heart. He knows that the only way he can delay or cause us to abort our divine assignment is to cause us to reject our new heart. The new heart brings new warfare because the enemy wants to keep you bound and ineffective.

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 The new heart sets us free,

dresses us for battle and puts us

right back into active duty.

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      Whether you realized it or not, there has always been a battle for your soul. Sadly, many of us have functioned like prisoners of war (POW). Stripped of our weapons and uniforms, the enemy has chained us and thrown us into a pit of bondage. There is little to no food (Word) there, and there is definitely no rest. The enemy's cruel forced labor drains every ounce of your strength. The new heart sets us free, dresses us for battle and puts us right back into active duty.

 

       Some spiritual POWs never overcome the trauma of war. Even after they have been rescued and brought back home, their minds torment them with refuns of what used to be. Though they have been set free, they are spiritually paralyzed. Through torment and deception, the enemy has disabled them. They do not even try to walk in their new found freedom. They need a new heart -- just like the generation of Israelites who died in the wilderness because they were afraid to obey God's voice ( Num. 32:13).

 

Derived from

"Matters of the HEART"

Writer : Juanita Bynum, Ph.D.

Philippians 腓立比書 4:8 ".... whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, .... dwell on these things."

Philippians 腓立比書 4:8 

".... whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, .... dwell on these things."

" 凡是....純潔的、高尚的、... 什麼可稱讚的，這些事你們就當思想. "

SHALOM TO ALL BELOVED SAINTS, MINISTERS AND CHILDREN OF MOST HIGH GOD, 

Filippesi 4:8
Infine, fratelli, tutte le cose vere, tutte le cose onorevoli, tutte le cose giuste, tutte le cose pure, tutte le cose amabili, tutte di buona fama, se c'è qualche virtù e qualche cosa degna di lode, soffermarsi su queste cose.

Philippians 腓立比書 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.

最後，弟兄們，凡是真實的、莊重的、公義的、純潔的、可羨慕的、高尚的，如果有什麼美德，如果有什麼可稱讚的，這些事你們就當思想.

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There are times, I do first thing in the morning is to sing or playing music ...... this is one of them.

May God bless you all who love my singing:- 

" Nella Fantasia 內拉幻想曲 " 

 sang by Cassandra Lai ( BelCanto , A Capella style ~ Soprano)

https://soundcloud.com/junelai/nella-fantasia-by-cassandra

"A Prophetic Vision of RAPTURE "

" Shofar blowing " Herald of His coming "

Lyrics translated to English :

In my fantasy I see a just world

Where everyone lives in peace and honesty

I dream of souls that are always free

Like clouds that float

Full of humanity in the depths of the soul

In my fantasy I see a bright world

Where each night there is less darkness

I dream of souls that are always free

Like clouds that float

In my fantasy exists a warm wind

That breathes into the city, like a friend

I dream of souls that are always free

Like clouds that float

Full of humanity in the depths of the soul

Lyrics in Chinese language (华語翻譯）:

在我的幻想我看到一個公正的世界
每個人都生活在和平與誠信
我夢想的靈魂總是自由的
像雲一樣漂浮
人性化十足的靈魂深處

在我的幻想我看到一個光明的世界

其中每個晚上有黑暗少

我夢想的靈魂總是自由的

像雲一樣漂浮

在我的幻想存在一個溫暖的風
會呼吸進城，喜歡的朋友
我夢想的靈魂是總是自由的
像雲一樣漂浮
人性化十足的靈魂深處.

The Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom “ 對上帝的敬畏是智慧的開端 ”

   The Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom 

對上帝的敬畏是智慧的開端

English “ NKJV “ ，Chinese "Chinese Contemporary Bible (CCB)"

Psalm 诗篇111:10

” The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom;

A good understanding have all those who do His commandments. His praise endures forever. ” ,

智慧始于敬畏耶和华，遵行祂命令者皆明睿。祂永远当受赞美。

Proverbs 箴言9:10, 

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

智慧始於敬畏耶和華, 認識至聖者便是明智。

Job 约伯记 28:28, 

“And to man He said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom,

And to depart from evil is understanding."

祂对世人说，‘敬畏主就是智慧，远离恶便是聪明。’”

             When the pure and holy fear of the Lord reigns in our life, we will not have to fear anything else. Our goal is to have only one fear in our life that is so great that it casts out all other fears.

Have you experienced being wake up by alarm clock before?

             " Alarm " is also a kind of fear, as we say that people are alarmed about something. It is good for the church to become alarmed about the increase of evil in our times. This is the kind of alarm that we need to help wake us up. However, after we wake up we do not want to be controlled by a fear of the evil, but by the fear of the Lord which is really a profound trust and faith in the LORD.

             當純潔和神聖的敬畏耶和華籠罩在我們的生活中，我們將不必擔心任何東西。

我們的目標是只有一個擔心，我們的生活是如此之大，以至於它蒙上了其他所有的恐懼。

你有沒有經歷過被鬧鐘喚醒了呢？

            " 警報 " 也是一種恐懼，就像我們說的，人們感到震驚的東西。這是很好的教會，成為報警約邪惡在我們這個時代的增長。這是我們需要幫助喚醒我們的一種報警。然而，當我們醒來時，我們不希望被恐懼的邪惡的控制，而是由敬畏耶和華這確實是一個深刻的信任和信心是耶和華。

Source derived from 資料來源： 

Good Fear, BREAKING THE POWER OF EVIL,

好的害怕，撕掉邪惡的力量.

作者 Writer : By Rick Joyner.

Heaven is so Real by Choo Thomas

Heaven is so Real

天堂是如此真实

by Choo Thomas

Shalom beloved saints, ministers and children of God,

                   I like to share this video and book " Heaven is so Real by Choo Thomas" because God spoke to me so personally through this book when I was a very young Christian when other friends, family , members of church could not understand why I love spending reading God's words, listen to gospel songs,  love to dance for Lord Jesus and worship him in my own room or during church worship are singing.
There are times when God showed me His visions about heaven, His throne and His angels, sometimes I can see those visions during church worship....... when my life is fill with pride I can never feel Jesus is near but only when I put down my ego, pride and self ( Die for self daily). Then, Holy Spirit can lead me to do His will.

                    Below is a video produced by Choo Thomas ministry after our  beloved sister/woman experienced many visitations of Jesus into her life after she got saved. I prayed that as you listen to this video or read her book " Heaven Is So Real" , your life will be fully transform and renew for our Lord Jesus.

John 3:16 " For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. "

       FULL: Heaven is so Real by Choo Thomas, Interview

* Run to ME 奔跑向我 *

*** RUN TO ME 奔跑向我 ***

"Journey of the Unknown Prophet"
by Wendy Alec

O how I love your presence, My child.

O how I love to walk and talk with you, beloved.

O how I long for you to come and sit with Me at My feet.

O how I love your voice.

O how I love your presence, My child.

哦，我多么爱你的存在，我的孩子。 

哦，我多么爱与您并走路，交谈...... 亲爱的。 

哦，我多么渴望你也来和我坐在我的脚。 

哦，我多么喜欢你的声音。 

哦，我多么爱你的存在，我的孩子。

O how I long for you to come and sit with Me at My feet. O how I love your voice. How I have yearned your companionship O My child, how I long to fellowship with you.

O My child, how My heart has grieved for you as I have watched you run from Me when I would gather you to Me in My arms.

My child, beloved child, I AM He who would bless you. I AM He who would comfort you. I AM He who would talk with you.

I have seen you in your darkness, in your hurt, in your misunderstanding. But I know your heart, My child, I know your heart.

Run to ME in the storms of life. Run into My arms, and I will embrace you and wash away the cares and pains of the world that the evil one would inflict on you. Take heart, My child. Your way is not unseen of Me. I AM mighty. I AM your Deliverer. I will yet rejoice over you with singing.

And even in those times when you have failed ME, when you do not feel worthy, My arms are stretched out to you, saying : Come, come. Run to My arms.

For it is truly only in My embrace that you will lose sight of yourself, and as you look into My face, the entanglements of this world shall fade away. 

 So come into My arms, beloved. RUN TO ME.

                                                    Isaiah 以赛亚书 55:6 

 " Seek ye the Lord while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near:

  要趁着还可以找到耶和华的时候寻找祂，趁祂还在附近的时候求告祂."

"Love Involves a Risk 愛 涉及到風險"

* 3rd week of June on Thursday（星期四）18/6/2014 *

" Love  Involves a Risk 愛 涉及到風險 "

     When the Holy Spirit worked for past years to bring my family relationship between my parents and my sisters under the lordship of Lord Jesus, it was a breaking (heart surgery) experience, I have broken down and cried to God many times for those pains and rejections. Out of those brokenness came cognition which I have also hurt by my own failure for not able to fulfill my promises to them in my early life. When I finally learn to surrender my failure and my hurts all unto my Lord I found great release, I don't have bare those burden upon my shoulders. I REPENTED and seek God for direction each day when I miss them, I prayed for them.
     當聖靈工作了近十年，使主耶穌的主權下，我的父母和我的姐妹們之間我的家庭關係，這是一個打破（心臟手術）的經驗，我已經崩潰，到神面前为哭了為那些痛苦和拒絕好多次。。。。。为那些破碎來到認知，我自己的失敗未能履行在我早期的生活我的承諾給他們我也傷害了他們。當我終於學會放棄我的失敗，我傷害了所有對我主我找到極大的釋放,我沒有在我的肩膀上再次承擔這些負擔。我悔改並尋求上帝方向的每一天，當我想念他們，我為他們禱告。

       No longer do I have to try to fit my interpersonal relationship to religious ideal-model that is neither the basic rules to help me to get closer to others compare to the way Bible clearly directs. And finally realise that my envyness toward my own sisters and by looking at their success instead of  focusing Lord Jesus causing more harm and brokenness. I am not perfect as till the day I see Jesus face to face I am under His workmanship, Jesus is my potter and I am His clay. Meantime, I learn that "AGAPE LOVE" is loving them without bondage.
         不再做我必須嘗試以適合我的人際交往關係，宗教理想模型，既不是基本的規則，以幫助我更接近別人比較的方式​​聖經清楚地指示。終於明白 我對自己的姐妹他們的成功感到妒忌 "envyness"，而不是專注於主耶穌: 造成更多的傷害和破碎。我不是完美的，直到有一天我见到耶穌面對面。我在他的工藝，耶穌是我的陶匠，我是他的粘土。同時，我了解到，“大愛” 是沒有束縛的愛他們。

       God walks people through our lives for a purpose. We need warm, caring relationships. But we dare not allow ourselves to become locked into a relationship that in return it renders us hesitant or ineffectual in carrying out the Lord's commandments.
神让人經過我們的生活是有目的的。我們需要溫暖，關懷。但我們也不敢讓自己成鎖定關係，在回歸它使我們猶豫不決或無效在執行上帝的誡命。

        When we allowed God to put our lives together as He wills, He alone can pull all the strings at one, for example last Sunday was Father Day and 15th of June 2014 also my mum's birthday. We (my husband and I went back to hometown) to give a warm greeting on Sunday after church service with help from  brother Yeong accompany with his mum and two girls. If we try on our own way, we might manipulate our interaction with others to effect our greatest good and His greatest glory.
        當我們讓神的意志把我們生活放在一起，祂可以獨自在一個拉動所有的弦。例如上週日是父親節2014年6月15日也是我媽媽的生日。我們（我和丈夫又回到故鄉）在教會熱情的服務後招呼上週日與弟弟永的幫助與陪伴他的媽媽和兩個女孩。上帝實在我們的生命中現祂最大的善和祂最大的榮耀。

          Let God be God, our loving heavenly Father not only can, HE can for all concerned. Amen !
         神是神，我們慈愛的天父，不僅如止，祂也能够给以我们生命 中各方面的關注。啊们！

                   歸來吧 - 黎焕詩 & 王若詩 合唱(Torna a Surriento)

(Torna a Surriento) 歸來吧 - 黎焕詩& 王若詩 合唱

Sang by Cassandra Lai 

聽那海洋的呼吸 充滿了柔情蜜意
你的笑語和歌聲 留在我的夢裡
園內陽光明媚無比 嬌花到處放出香氣
對著這麼美的風光 教我怎樣不想你
自從你和我分離 悲哀湧進我的心裡
在這可愛的地方 數著你的歸期
歸來吧 歸來 請不要把我拋棄
歸來吧 歸來 我在等你

歸來吧 歸來 請不要把我拋棄
歸來吧 歸來 我在等你

https://soundcloud.com/junelai/torna-a-surriento

Hearts Of Gold

Hearts Of Gold 

Get your child involved in volunteer work and

 the act of charity  will come naturally as they grow.

STARTING POINT      

1. RECYCLE

Show your child what he can recycle and make it a point to keep your recyclables separated at home.

2. SHARE

       Let your child decide what he would want to share with the less fortunate by getting him to sort through his toys and books every few months. You can rally up your friends to do the same and send these toys ( 你可以集結起你的朋友做同樣的和發送這些玩具 ) and books to homes with them.



3. LOVE

Charity starts from the heart and getting your child to understand the power of love is essential to raising kind and loving children. Give love freely and you'll receive in return.





LET THEM PARTICIPATE
Give your child a say when participating in volunteer work. Get them involved in choosing the cause and when they do, ask them why they have chosen that particular cause. This will also help you understand your child better.

Encourage your child to help out, from planning a garage sale to raising funds to organising contributions for homes and shelters. You can also get him to rally his friends to help out, making it a social activity.

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DOING GOOD

Want to give back to society but not sure where to start ?

MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND 

         Acts of kindness start from home. Before volunteering to join a charitable cause, get your child to understand the fundamentals of a charitable act. Helping someone in need is noble and to make charity a part of their daily life can give them happiness nothing else can :-)  

       Start by getting them to help you around the house. You can motivate them by starting a point system. With the points that they accumulate, they will get a treat. You can also get them to sort through their books and toys and get them to decide if they want to donate to the less fortunate. Explain how they can help and why they should help.

" Lead by example, and you'll raise a child filled with compassion and kindness. "

" Get your child involved in volunteer work and

 the act of charity  will come naturally as they grow."

    

Wishing you "Happy Parenting"

and building a strong foundation for your child at home.

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Source : DO SOMETHING GOOD
Malaysia Volunteering Network
www.dosomething.gd

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. 

你 的 話 是 我 腳 前 的 燈 ， 是 我 路 上 的 光 。

 Psalm 詩 篇 119:105

He that is slow to wrath is of great understandings
but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly.
不轻易发怒者深明事理，
鲁莽急躁的人显出愚昧。
~ PROVERBS 箴言 14:29

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Whoso keepeth the commandment shall feel no evil thing:
And a wise man's heart discerneth
both time and judgement.
遵守命令的，必不遭受災禍；
智慧人的心，曉得時機，懂得判斷。
~ ECCLESIASTES 传道书 8:5 

Source derived from my facebook album page :
"Gems of Heaven": https://www.facebook.com/CassandraLai69

 " SHALOM ALEICHEM " Peace unto you

Like "Fire" Shut Up In My Bones!

Like "Fire" Shut Up In My Bones!

by Diana'Marion Victory

But If i say, "I will Not Mention Him or Speak His Word is in My Heart Like a "Fire" A "Fire" Shut Up In My Bones - I Am Weary of Holding it In, indeed, I CANNOT - Jeremiah 20:9

Jeremiah Cried Out in Despair mixed with Praise, unburdening his hear to God - He had Faithfully Proclaimed God's Word and had Received nothing in Return But persecution and sorrow - YET when he withheld God's Word for a while - It Became Fire in his bones until he could hold it back No Longer -

Dear Bishops, Pastors, Evangelists, Elders, Watchmen, Watchwomen, Prayer Warriors, Intercessors, and Workers for Jehovah God - There will Come times when God will Give You uncomfortable Words to either Preach/Teach/Say - And when You say it You Won't Get Many Amens or Hallelujahs, or thanks - However, as Called Out Anointed people of God, Stand on What God has given you, and Say or do and Do It - Think of a woman Needing to give birth, and forcing herself Not to Push the baby out - Think about the Agony of Holding the baby in - She will be "bursting" with dis-comfort - This is how You will feel if you with-hold what God gives you to do or say - Don't mind what people may say, or how they may react, or the after-effects -Jeremiah received back persecution, and some sorrow - Yes it can be Heavy Leading/Working/Evangelising -  Remember That God is With You - Remember it is God You Work For - Remember That If God Said it, it MUST come to Pass - Remember Where Your Great Reward/Payment is Coming From - Look back at those great men and women of God who has gone on Before Who Stood For Something, The Gospel Truth, who were Not intimated by Fear, Paul Calls them the Great Cloud/Crowd of Witnesses, and Be Encouraged.

Prayer!

Heavenly Father I Lift up Every Bishop, Pastor, Reverend, Evangelist, Elder, Watchmen/women, Prayer Warrior/Intercessor, and Worker who is Still Faithfully Hanging On to the Gospel Truth - Who is Willing to Be Your Mouth piece, Who is Willing to go on the highways, and by ways to win souls, Who is willing to Stand in the gap for the Needy, who is Willing to serve in the capacity you have called them - Some have or may become weary with the burden of their Calling/Position - I Ask that You will Encourage in a Super-natural way - Inject a Passion/zeal in them that will be like a Fire than Will NEVER go Out, No matter what - Help us not to be Moved by the silences, or persecution - Help us to Run on for you ANYWAY - Knowing that We Have A Greater Reward Coming in Heaven in JESUS name - Amen -

Grace is Letting God .....恩典是讓上帝.....

           

Grace is Letting God .... 

    恩典是讓上帝.....

            What a wonderful book "If not by the Grace of God" ??!!! Joyce has stated so preciously and clearly that :-

            多麼美妙的書“ 如果不是上帝的恩典 ”？！喬伊斯曾表示如此珍貴，並明確表示：-

                 GRACE  is not us doing anything, it is us letting God do things through us.                                                                

                                      GRACE requires us to be absolutely still mentally,

                                trusting in the LORD rather than worrying or reasoning.

            恩典 是不是我們做任何事情，這是我們讓上帝藉著我們做的事情。 

                                      恩典要求我們是絕對還是精神上， 

                                               倚靠耶和華而不是擔心或推理。 

                                           

GRACE is letting God  be God in our life !!!

  恩典 是在我們的生活~ 讓上帝成為上帝！

                           GRACE is God doing us a favor, coming in with His power might to accomplish in

                                     and through us what we don't deserve for Him to do.

恩典 是神做我們一個忙，來與他的能力和可能實現的 .....

      

 OBEDIENCE TO GOD 

順服上帝

                                            Only I can move the mountain, only I can push it away,

                                                         only I can conquer the problems,

                                                                  THAT you face today .....

只有我可以移動山，只有我能推走， 

                                               只有我能征服你今天面對的問題 .....

                                             Your job is to believe, to listen to My voice,

                               AND you hear what I command,"Obedience" is your choice. 

你的工作是要相信，要聽我的話， 

                                    與你聽到我的命令，“服從”是你的選擇。

LEAVE THE OUTCOME TO GOD

把最终的結果交给神

                               But I will not make it too difficult for the victory is already MINE,

                                    and I will fill you with My Spirit & through you My grace will shine.

                                   Not when you are perfect, like you think you need to be,

                                            but when your heart is willing to become more and more like ME. 
                                             但我不會讓它太困難的勝利已經是我的， 
                            我將填補你我的精神與通過你我的恩典將大放異彩。 
                                      不是當你是完美的，就像你認為你需要， 
                                   但是當你的心臟是願意成為越來越喜歡我。                      

From the book "If not for the GRACE OF GOD" , written by Joyce Meyer.   

Shared by Prophetess Cassandra Lai       

從書“如果不是因為神的恩典”，寫的喬伊斯邁耶。
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